An important part of Spiritual Healing is learning to understand and use
Gratitude and Appreciation for yourself and others. Now here I�m not talking
about the preachy form of �Say thank you�. I�m also not a big fan
of �blessing the problems that come into my life,� but probably only
because I haven�t been able to master that one myself yet.
The Gift of Understanding
In my own life, and in working with others, I use the words Gratitude and
Appreciation synonymously with Understanding. Let�s think about it for a
second. It�s only when you understand something can you have an
Appreciation for it.
And when you begin to understand that some unwanted thing in your life had a
positive intention to begin with, it�s easy to have Gratitude for that
In Spiritual Healing we need to remove Self-Judgment and Blame. I use
Understanding as a way to replace these feelings with Gratitude and
Appreciation. It isn�t always easy, but it is a simple process.
Problems, Reasons and Answers
Whenever we have a problem there�s a human need to attach a reason for that
problem. Unfortunately, the reason that we assign is never completely accurate.
Or, the reason is only accurate from one perspective.
One way that we can start addressing problems is by first trying to understand
the problem from various perspectives. By doing this we have the option of
choosing a useful reason for the problem.
Let�s take the example of a man in his 40�s that came to me for help with
his low self-esteem and lack of confidence whenever he tried something new. He
knew that the reason for his problem was that his parents never encouraged him
as a child or as even a teen. Now here is a man in his 40�s still living in a
self-imposed trap that he believes his parents set up for him.
By understanding the impact that he had been an only child due to several
miscarriages by his mother, he was able to release many of the
over-protectiveness that she had passed on to him growing up.
His parents had been so worried for the safety of their only son that they
actually discouraged him from playing sports or anything that would require even
a hint of danger.
Before being able to let go of the feelings that held him back, he needed to
realize that these feelings were passed on to him by very caring parents. He
first began to understand, and then to Appreciate and have Gratitude for
the intentions of his parents to keep him safe.
It then became easy for him to let go of the over-protectiveness that his
parents had passed on to him, and that he was still trying to recreate on a
subconscious level. As he let go, he naturally began to expand himself and it
became easy to try new things with confidence as he had always hoped for.
An Attitude of Gratitude
I love this quote, �have an attitude of gratitude.� But the Gratitude that will be most
impact in our lives will be Self-Gratitude and Self-Appreciation.
By learning to have an understanding of our Self it becomes easy to start living with gratitude. And the more of our Self that we get to know, the more that we learn to appreciate.
As we learn to apply Spiritual Healing in our lives, let�s remember that all healing starts from the inside. Applying these lessons in your life on a moment-by-moment basis will go far in living the life you truly desire.
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Recommended books for developing Gratitude and Appreciation:
The Secret Gratitude Book by Rhonda Byrne is an
inspirational journal for developing the attitude and energy of
to have more of what you're' grateful for in your life.
haven't yet seen the movie, The
Secret, I would highly recommend watching this movie because
it is a powerful visual of how our thoughts and emotions affect our
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